Crossdressing gives me fulfillment: It makes me whole
Crossdressing gives me fulfillment: it makes me whole, makes me feel happy and content
Almost every crossdresser will tell you roughly the same thing about their dressing journey.
Such a journey may have started from tentative beginnings, perhaps when they accidentally discovered they enjoyed wearing certain articles of women’s clothing to all the way to developing the finished product years later—a beautiful woman adorned in her En Femme outfits, with make-up, wigs, jewelry and other adornments, going out and about on the town, wanting to be seen and admired.
On the other hand, not every crossdresser ends up completing their journey by being a fully dressed, completely made-up beauty—and there are plenty who stop at different stages along the way; they may simply enjoy dressing in the confines of their homes in bras and panties, stockings and garters from En Femme, and admiring in the mirror how they look; others may go for a certain look such as short mini-skirts and tight tops, high heels -a look some may call girly or slutty but, hey, our crossdresser knows what he likes and why not?
Then there are crossdressers who, somewhere along the way, realize that they absolutely need to do more than just dress occasionally and, in fact, are on the transgender side of the spectrum—and that they really need to be living full–time as a female (with or without cosmetic or other surgery).
So, even though we are all fundamentally similar in having the unquenchable, unresolved desire to cross dress, what we sometimes tend to disagree on are two key things: first, why we cross dress and, second, what does dressing up as a female bring to our lives?
If you did a survey among a good sample of crossdressers and posed to them the following questions, I’m sure many of the answers would be something along the lines of:
Crossdressing:
- helps me relax after a stressful day at work or with the family; it’s so wonderful to take some time to myself, be able to shower, shave and slip into slinky underwear, a tight-fitting dress and become my alter ego, even if it’s only for a few hours or so.
- allows the more feminine side of me to be revealed every so often; not every man has to be a macho-type who loves to race cars or motorbikes and or get his hands dirty changing engine oil; many of us have a more sensitive side lying semi–dormant within and it’s great to be able to enjoy this side of ourselves.
- allows me to express myself outside of the confines of the traditional male role people expect me to play every day; men are so confined by colors and styles and shapes of clothing, the way they are expected to behave and respond to certain situations.
- is an experience which others who do not cross dress can never truly appreciate; the overpowering sense of enchantment never goes away; the excitement is forever there and the anticipation leading up to a time when you can cross dress is unmatched.
- brings me a peace of mind which you cannot seem to find with other activities such as playing or watching sport, or meeting with (male) friends where the conversation centers around things which don’t really interest me
And lastly a BIG one:
It makes me feel whole, it make me feel complete! It’s almost as if a missing part of my life, of my character, of me suddenly falls into place and I am a better, all-around person when dressed in women’s clothes. Apart from the physical changes I can make to my appearance, my character changes, my perspective on life is different and I am more content and at peace with myself and the world (at least for a while)!
Do any of these thoughts resonate with you? Do you see any similarities in the way you feel and how you look at the world when you are in your En Femme attire? If so, post a comment below us and let us know!
My time began at age 4 or 5.
my older female cousins had given me a bath. No boys underwear was available. I was put in nylon panties. I was hooked. through the years, I had to do what I could to re enact the panties. thank god for older step sisters.
moving forward. my daughter age 37 has known for at least 10 years that I cross dress, my son I just told tonight. he is fine with it my wife and step daughter have known that I wear panties. I told them tonight I do cross dress 100% they are my biggest fans. I also was able to share with my daughter that if a man called me out on cross dressing and was interested I would give him head. I raised my children as a single parent .I have no secrets from my daughter.tonight my wife polished my nailes.
looking forward to go dress shopping with her. I am truly blessed
Hi Girls,
My journey began at age 5, wearing my neighbors dress while playing at her house. I was hooked even then, I knew I Loved wearing woman's clothes and couldn't wait for the new Sears Catalogue to come in the mail. I would spend hours looking at different outfits and dream of wearing them myself. Once I hit puberty I incorporated self gratification and dressing up which only added to my confusion regarding my sexuality. I went thru a phase in my twenties believing I just be gay because I loved wearing woman's clothing and eventually purged, purged again and again before taking a 23 year break from crossdressing. I am now 58 years old and began dressing again about 8 weeks ago. I have already acquired an extensive wardrobe, wigs, shoes and learned to apply make up purchasing the make up Magic and Stepping out Secrets programs. I have been out in public twice and already have one 33 year old man asking me out. I am married to a wonderful, supportive woman who enjoys my crossdressing.
My journey has evolved greatly thru the years. Cross dressing for me is no longer sexual, it is a stress reliever for one. I Love feeling like a girl and wonder if I should have been born female and not male. I Love applying make up, I Love the soft stains and lace against my skin and have come to terms with the fact that I am bi-sexual. I am in no way a sissy and I one-time stereo types. So what does Cross dressing do for me? It helps me to stay same in a insane world!!
Hi Kathy,
I want to be true myself, my feminine self. There is a beautiful woman within me and she is struggling to manifest herself. And that feeling is becoming stronger and stronger at every moment. I cannot stop it from happening, nor do I want to stop it from happening. However, I have no desire to have a sex change. I am a heterosexual man and do not want to be degraded as a sissy. Unfortunately, many people equate being a cross dresser as a sissy…
Thank you for allowing me to express myself on this forum.
Love and kisses,
Karri
Is there anything better in this world that being dressed and being a woman- honestly no. Like many other girls here I strarted dressing at a very early age then thanks to some very sexy ribbed satin panties that belonged to my sister, this started the journey. I am sitting here in a beautiful leather look pepulim dress and it not only feels devibne but more importantly very natural, The restraint of my bra, the softness of of lace top hold ups and the feeling of my six inch heels and long dirty blond wig complete me as a woman. I am a woman in everyway and look forward to each and every day getting out of bed choosing one of my amazing En Femme outfits and starting my day, choosing whaty panties and bra to wear, stocking, tioght or hold ups and what heels to wear so many wonderful and exciting chooses that as a man you may never have the pleasure to enjoy. Embrace your womanhood and the wondrfiul opportunty you have been given to be a woman, men do not know what they are mising out on. Love your work Kathy. This nearly 60 somethiubng girl is it looking back ever again. Much love and kisses Harley xxx
Like lot of transgirls I started exploring all things feminine at around 10 or 12. Long story short the learning levels were; Discovery at 12, exploration at 14, learning and applying what I had learned at 19 and the beginning of my long journey on the road to femininity at 24. I am still on that road and happy to have discovered it so early on in my life. So now I am at the stage of refinement in all aspects and defining who Angela is as a woman and a person. To be able to relate to the world as best as I can treating everyone I meet as nicely as I would have them treat me. Every aspect of every level I evolved through was key to the female I am today. From the clothes, wardrobe, grooming, makeup, female movement, voice, relating positively to men, women and other t girls. I see other girls out there doing the same thing and all I have is support and love for them. I see them in me. I can only speak from my own positive experience, but I aspire to the divine on a daily basis. This is my motivation which will be with me for life. A good life.
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