Panties, Bras, and Hosiery: a Crossdresser's Dream Items

crossdresser dressed in pink bra and panties, with stockings and heels

Panties, Bras, and Hosiery: a Crossdresser's Dream Items

No matter how long you have been crossdressing, I’m sure you can remember the first time you wore an item of women’s clothing.

No matter how many times you have crossdressed, I’m sure you still get that amazing, magical feeling when it’s time to start getting dressed and you start looking through your store of En Femme clothing, thinking, contemplating, and anticipating what you are going to wear this time you dress!

Of course, you’ve dressed up hundreds—or maybe even thousands—of times before, but hey, the feelings that start to wash over you and envelop you never ever change. Some dressers will say the more they dress the better it gets, the stronger the feelings, the more they look forward to the next time and the next.

But, like I say, we never forget the first time. Many of us associate the euphoria of starting to crossdress with three items that are essential to starting the journey to effective transformation and that are synonymous with being a crossdresser!

My title has already given it away but, yes, panties, bra and hosiery are perhaps the three most important pieces of clothing for both the novice and experienced crossdresser. After all, where would we be without the basics?

Oh, the joyous feeling of handling and then slipping on a pair of new panties: the feel of the fabric; its texture against your legs and thighs as you pull them up carefully; easing the garment around your nether regions; making sure they fit snugly and making sure they are comfortable; admiring the lower part of your body in the mirror; seeing your new shape in your pink or white or black En Femme panties.

As we all know, panties come in all shapes, colors, fabrics, and sizes. They’re full cut or half cut, briefs or thongs. They might be in nylon or silk, cotton or a synthetic blend. No matter, take time to luxuriate in the feelings of them around your lower areas.

Then there are bras. Wow, what an enticing piece of clothing for all serious crossdressers. The first time you fasten the clasp of a bra, swivel the garment around 180 degrees and pull it up strap by strap onto your shoulders is a memory that will stay etched in your crossdressing memory forever and a day!

Suddenly, you are aware that you have a new upper body shape—and looking in the mirror confirms this. Suddenly, in front of you, you have something which you have never experienced before. Fill out the bra cups (ideally with En Femme breast forms) and see the shape of your new breasts. Enjoy these pleasurable moments.

You have so many choices—underwired, padded, full cup, half cup, strapless, front fastening, or just some simple skimpy, soft satiny material that’s barely enough to cover your new breasts. The sensations course through your whole body as you feel the tightness of the bra strap across your back and feel the shoulder straps take the weight of your breasts.

And finally, hosiery… Mmmm…

Encasing your legs in a set of sheer En Femme stockings or maybe a pair of high quality tights or pantyhose that you have recently purchased is sure to enrapture you in the feeling of femininity you are striving for. The hosiery might be black or white or nude in color. In the case of stockings, they might be self-supporting or held with a dainty, sexy suspender belt with at least two fasteners, one front and back. Or in the event that you prefer to wear tights that pull right up and past your waist, you’ll feel great as you feel their sheerness against your freshly shaven legs—and the nylons brush and swish against your sexy, slinky panties!

Whatever you choose to wear in the hosiery department, you are sure to feel like a million dollars; just look how slim and appealing your legs look when encased in nylon and how the hosiery you are wearing accentuates the outfit that you are now prancing around in.

So, remember, when you have finished getting ready, when you are admiring yourself and your alter ego in the mirror (yet again), be sure to remember how it all started, how your crossdressing all those years ago probably started with you wearing panties, a nice bra, and hosiery.

Just as it did today when you decided to get dressed in your En Femme finery and let your inner woman come out to play!


  • Rose

    This is a lovely article and expresses so clearly my own feelings when I am able to dress in some of my beautiful lingerie (sadly I am unable to do so all the time). My wish is always to select the prettiest underwired bra (with forms) and matching panties (or maybe thong if I am feeling naughty!), as these garments do express for me my feminine self. And silk is a particular love for me – there's nothing like the sensual and soft feel of silk against my breasts and most intimate areas below. Then, to add a lovely pair of stockings with garter belt is, well, words cannot express adequately the intensity of feelings that go through me. Of course, I do need to put on some heels to show off the stockings, and then look at myself in a full length mirror. How right and natural it seems to be dressed as a woman…

  • angela

    Another wonderful article to read and a pleasure to comment on. In my own life experience expressing my female side, I have always taken great care in purchasing the loveliest pair of panties and bras I can find. Lace, silk, microfiber, mesh are all lovely fabrics for intimate apparel. Especially when you are intimate with that special someone who appreciates and delights as much as you do how you have perfected your female presentation. And of course nothing is more divine than a beautiful pair of nylon stockings. I agree intimate female apparel "takes me to my highest high".

  • Elena

    Yes, I agree. I found a sensation of euphoria when I got crossdressed in my first time. Wearing pantyhose is essential to feel like a woman. I rather to get shaven my legs, because the opaque hair coverage pantyhose don't make me feel like a woman at all. In my opinion, a good makeup and an elegant dress with shirt to show my legs wearing tighs are the most important to play as a pretty girl.
    My best regards from Spain.
    Elena Ruiz.

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