Wearing Panties - Fun, Sexy and Exciting!

 crossdressing in women's panties

Wearing Panties - Fun, Sexy and Exciting!

Men’s underwear to me was always ugly and bland and in many instances did not hold what is needed to be held comfortably in the right position. Women’s panties are much different, ranging from the basic cotton style to silky, sheer, thongs and bikinis, just to name a few. I have come to find that having an assortment of styles is perfect for my lifestyle. Today, there is a wide variety of men’s underwear, but there’s something about women’s panties that I prefer.

For me, wearing women’s panties is a choice and not sexual but for others it may be, and that’s OK too. As a long-time crossdresser, I have always worn women’s undergarments when dressed en femme. It’s like wearing a bra - an essential part of a wardrobe. But I never thought I would be regularly wearing panties and can only thank a dear friend for convincing me to “take the challenge” and make the change.

It all started a few years ago in a Seattle area motel room. My CD friend met me for an evening out for dinner, dancing and fun with some of the local girls. Being a conservative dresser, I had usually worn the regular cotton undies when dressed, but that night was different. My friend brought me a gift, a pair of light blue bikini panties.

“Try them on,” she said as we were dressing. “I brought a pair for all the girls tonight.”

As my friend and I were getting ready, I noticed he was wearing a similar pair. I was still in my boxers.

“Get rid of those,” she insisted. So, I threw them in the closet.

Hesitantly, I tried on the bikini panties. They fit perfectly and felt so good against my skin. The more I wore them, the more I liked them. I felt more comfortable wearing the feminine style and everything was compact and not hanging where it should not be hanging.

The following day, I went en femme to the lingerie department at a mall big box store and picked up another six pair of panties in different styles and colors. I could not believe the assortment available to women.

I now have various panties in different styles depending on what I’m interested in wearing or the type of outfit I have on. I always have on hand bikinis, cotton and sheer briefs and one very special bra and thong to wear depending on my mood and style. En Femme offers panties as well as hiding gaffs, specialty garments that are like panties, but are designed to create a flat front for those outfits that require the smoothest appearance.

I try to rotate which style I’ll wear depending on my attire and depending on the weather. If it is cold, I will wear my cotton briefs; if it is warm or during the summer months, I’ll probably wear my bikinis under my short pants, and if I wish to feel a little adventurous, I may wear my silky semi-bikini briefs. I usually save my thong for “ladies night” to complement with my pantyhose, thigh highs or gartered hose.

My male underwear now languishes in my bedroom dresser to be worn on very rare occasions!


  • Eric Ballou

    Nothing wrong with it I also enjoy them satin or silk

  • Paul

    I started wearing panties when I was about 13. I had always been intrigued by how sexy the models looked in their panties in the Sears and JCPenney catalogs back then. One summer I was asked by my friend’s parents to come by their house each day to feed their pets while they were on vacation. While I was there I began rummaging through my friend’s sister and mother’s panty drawers. I tried on every sexy pair I could find. I then took a couple pairs home with me and would wear them whenever I had the chance. Fast forward 35 years and I now not only enjoy wearing panties, but all other types of lingerie as well. I confessed my love of panties to my wife about 14 years ago after she caught me wearing some when she came home unexpectedly. I showed her my collection and she was upset at first, but now tolerates me wearing them. I wish she would have embraced my fetish more, as I would love to have her purchase some panties for me, but I don’t think that will ever happen.

  • Phil

    I am A man who loves to wear panties. My wife started me and she passed away in Feb but i still wear and love them

  • Frank

    I have been wearing panties on and off for 40 years. I’m now 67 and basically wear panties all the time, Unless I’m going to the Dr. I also usually wear stockings and garter now every day also. Don’t know if the wife actually likes it or just tolerates it.

  • Richard

    I wear panties all the time. I am bisexual and have no problem if getting undressed around men. I feel sexy in my sheer satin panties and men seem to enjoy them.

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