Are You a Fetish Crossdresser? (It's Great if You Are!)

Fetish Crossdressing in Leather and Lace

Are You a Fetish Crossdresser? (It's Great if You Are!)

Many crossdressers start out as fetish crossdressers.

Some crossdressers progress into fully presenting as a woman and some simply stay as they are—enjoying the fetish they have and the time when they engage in it!

Many fetishists find an item of female clothing, or the style of a garment from En Femme’s great clothing range, or a special type of outfit which they particularly like—and get great pleasure from wearing such item (or similar items) over and over again. Some crossdressers have no need to wear more than several female items and may never go all the way and fully present as a woman; they may never go out and meet others, being content just stay at home or in a hotel and indulge in their fetish for things feminine.

Not that there is anything wrong with this; they are quite content, enjoying their interest and bothering no one.

There are so many fetishes we can talk about but we’ll have a look at the top 5, and you can see if any of these sound familiar!

In no particular order, some popular fetishes:

  1. Women’s Underwear: Possibly because such items of clothing are the most accessible, so many crossdressers start out by wearing panties and a bra. Indeed, no matter where they end up, many crossdressers can still remember the very first time they fastened a bra behind their back, filled out the bra cups with old nylons or bird seed or whatever was to hand. They can still remember the first time they pulled on a pair of silky panties and how they felt as the soft fabric brushed against their thighs and enveloped their nether regions. And, of course once they had tried wearing a set of women’s underwear, our crossdresser was absolutely, totally hooked; the feelings, the sensations would live with him forever. Over time, our fetish crossdresser may order all sorts of styles of bras and panties from the En Femme website, but he stays loyal to simply wearing women’s underwear. He just likes it so much!


  • Stockings and Garters: The fetish of many crossdressers to wear stockings and garters is often linked to wearing underwear as mentioned above. In some ways stockings and garters portray that sensual, sexy image that many crossdressers are looking to recreate when they dress. Often worn with or as part of a corset or other sexy upper garment, it’s not uncommon for many crossdressers to build their whole style or appearance around these items of clothing, maybe adopting a heavy, sexual type of makeup, with low-cut tops and short skirts. The sheer, black, soft nylons held up with a well-fitting garter, the tension in the garter tabs evident every time our crossdresser moves… Why change if you really enjoy the feelings?
  • Mini Skirt and High Heels: Again, interlinked to some extent to the above fetishes, wearing micro mini-skirts and 4” or 6” high heels at every available opportunity are activities many crossdressers revel in. Who doesn’t love to show off their long, shapely legs? Who doesn’t love to strut around teetering on very high heels—and get intoxicated by the feelings which wash over them when they look in the mirror and see their sexy legs and skirts? Maybe this fetish is one of the very favorites as some crossdressers seem to have such great legs, perhaps due to their exercise they do or the diet they follow. Whatever the reason, if you’ve got them, show them, even if you are likely to get some strange looks while prancing around the local shopping centre in the middle of a Saturday lunchtime in your mini skirt and 6” black patent leather, strappy heels! 
  • Uniforms: Now this is an interesting one. How many crossdressers have a fetish for uniforms or outfits? The one that comes quickly to mind is the French maid uniform—white frilly apron, short working dress, frilly panties, and white head wear. It’s easy to lose count of how many crossdressers like to prance around (often wearing stockings and garters too) doing some housework and, seemingly, forever looking in the mirror at themselves in uniform! Of course, there are plenty of other uniforms out there such as a nurse’s uniform or maybe a female superhero outfit. Indeed, with the advent of cosplay and its huge popularity, more and more crossdressers are taking to wearing uniforms... might be time to dust off one of your old outfits or buy a new outfit/uniform from En Femme! 
  • Rubber or Latex: Always one of the perennial favorites of fetish crossdressers, rubber or latex clothing comes in all sorts of varieties and variations. Maybe rubber underwear or mini-skirts or tight-fitting tops which leave little to the imagination. Then there are skin-tight, roll-on latex all-in-one suits, sometimes used in conjunction with female masks which give the wearer a totally female look (a sub-fetish known as masking) or more often just items of rubber or latex wear to give pleasure and enjoyment to the wearer—often by their tight, restrictive nature… and maybe for enhanced enjoyment in role-play or light bondage


As we all know, within the crossdressing and T-girl communities there are a myriad of varieties, shades and colors of people. We are all unique and all like different things and experiences. So whatever your fetish, go for it and don’t be concerned about what others may think—it’s still just about a free world!


  • Kate

    I am currently transitioning and my breasts are now 38b. Wearing feminine lingerie is so exhilarating and the further I go down the transitioning path the more feminine I feel. Thanks for your great articles.

  • Tanya Jane

    It was fascinating to read this article as the first 3 sections fit me perfectly. I started with wearing just women’s underwear, bra, panties, stockings. Told myself I wasn’t a crossdresser it was only a fetish. Then at some point became obsessed with wanting to wear lingerie. I finally was able work up the courage to purchase some lingerie at a lingerie shop (prior to the internet). Went through a few purges but the need to wear lingerie never left. I don’t recall the exact moment but then I thought why not keep going and squeeze into one my wife’s dresses. Then moved on to some of my own purchases. I was still telling myself I’m not like those crossdressers on the internet, it’s just a fetish. Finally said to myself wait a minute I own my own dress, a pairs of stockings, 2 panties, 2 bras, and a pair of high heels. I am just like those crossdressers on the internet. My wardrobe has expanded, including 2 wigs (still only one pair of heels, but have a couple of pairs in my wish list). Now I am only fully satisfied when I can fully dress. Unfortunately I have to admit I still have times when I struggle completely accepting that I am a crossdresser, you’d think by now those struggles would be over. But deep down I know I am a crossdresser and I would not change that, it is one of the most wonderful feelings in the world to dressed en femme..


    I am completely obsessed with wearing lingerie. I guess you can call it a major obsession. My lingerie drawers are completely packed with variety of bras and panties including stockings and garters. I pretty much shop exclusively online at en femme style for all of my bras, gaffs, panties etc. nothing better than slipping on A New pair of panties from my favorite lingerie store. It is the best feeling when I am tucked into a gaff panty.

  • Shelby

    I love the website and all the lovely people that I run into here. This is a fabulous place.

  • Ken

    I have 40 DD breast , I wear pushups ,different types of Bras ,and panties matching sets started with nylons and crotchless panty hose ,because it helps with circlation in my legs and started with heels to help with the pads in feet everything together feels excellent i wear bras and panties all day log if I don't wear a bra foer support my breast hurt and leak ,because of medical and prescription reseasons my breast are still growing and sensetive just like female my estogen levels are through the roof love the beautiful bras and panty sets and
    looking into the heels ,because of my doctor said i benfit and help the pain .

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