How to hide your bulge with a cross dressing gaff

Crossdressing, many times revolves around illusion and fantasy. For the male, interested in wearing feminine garments, it can be an attempt to re create what he finds alluring and exciting about the opposite sex. A proppos, one can imagine, visions of tight, suggestive dresses and mini skirts will be part of the wardrobe ideas. In order for any crossdresser to successfully achieve these types of looks, it will be necessary for him to flatten his front crotch area so that there is little evidence of his manhood.


In order to achieve this goal there are a few solutions – some are better than others. Let’s look as some possible products and strengths and weaknesses for each.

1. Tight pair of women’s panties – One can try this solution. The only problem is that the material will probably be too stretchy to really hold your manhood flat, and if it is a briefer with a full back, your “junk” may not stay in place for very long so you will be forced to keep adjusting things into place. Sexy women’s panties will not hold anything in at all.

2. Tight women’s thong – You can try to find an appropriate women’s thong, but chances are it will not be made wide enough to cover and hold you parts and things will totally start falling out

3. Gaff – This is a specialty garment sold by various retailers on the Internet. Normally, it is made as a thong design. If the manufacturer has designed it correctly, it will flatten your crotch, hold your penis flat and keep everything nice and tidy for a few hours at a time so you can look your most feminine.

How to ready your “Package” for the Gaff

There are two ways to “move things around” so that your gaff panty will be more effective

1. The Simple Method - If you bought your gaff to just make your crotch area more flat but you are not going to be super critical about your “flatness factor,” then all you need to do is pull the gaff up your thighs, just push back your penis and balls with one hand and pull the gaff up with the other hand. Pull it up to your waist and everything will be tighter and flatter. If you are lucky, the construction on the gaff may rearrange your male parts automatically so that all is super flat (resembling the “rearrangement” method - explained next)

2. The “Rearrangement” Method – To achieve a remarkably flat crotch area, you need a good Gaff design with the proper fabric plus you need to reposition your twigs and berries for optimal smoothness.

Not all gaffs will flatten equally due to either poor fabric choice (too stretchy or too tight) or incorrect design. En Femme has made Gaff designs for 20 years and our various designs are customer tested to assure proper fit and quality.

Step 1: Move your marbles to the front

Basically, you need to move your testicles to the front and get your penis flat underneath so that you can achieve the flattest look. Sounds scary, right? Well it is at first. Here’s the 411 on moving your balls “up front” into the cavity above them

a. Before we start, get your gaff in position. Move it up your thighs, right below your crotch. You can lie down or stand for the next steps.

b. Above your balls, is an empty cavity. The testicles descended from this cavity soon after you were born. You may have experienced them rising into this cavity during sexual intercourse or masturbation, as they tend to rise into this cavity close to ejaculation. You may remember times where you had to keep “pushing your balls down” during sex – THAT is the cavity!

c. Now you need to gently push them up into this cavity. It’s scary at first, but believe me, it’s not a big deal after you do it two or three times. They will end up located right behind your pubic hair.

  • Caution – there are guys out there blessed with a really large set of balls. For you guys, tread gently and hopefully your genetics did not create something too large to fit back into this cavity.

Step 2 – Flatten your penis underneath

a. Now that you have your testicles up front, lightly hold them in place with one hand. With the other and you need to make your penis flat. If you are flexible enough, it is better to reach behind, and grab to pull the penis flat between the legs. If you are not so flexible, then push the penis back flat as you can.

b. Once you have your penis pushed or pulled back, let go of your balls and use that hand to bring the gaff up, while holding the penis flat with the other hand.

c. Now you should have a flat crotch area! If you don’t think it is flat enough, let the gaff down a few inches, while again holding the testicles up front by the pubic hair, re-flatten the penis and bring the gaff up again (sometimes you need to try a second time to get it all really flat)

a. TIP 1 Adjustment: now that things are flattened, you can fine tune by pulling the “thong” part (rear) of the gaff tighter from the back to adjust everything more (or less) flat and smooth

b. TIP 2 Erections: it’s best not to get too excited in your gaff as it could cause discomfort

c. TIP 3 Bathroom – Yes, you will need to undo everything to go to the bathroom. Just practice a few times and you can re-arrange your genitals in a snap to get your gaff back on so your back to looking your most lady-like right away!

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